Dating Advice For Women From Men

One thing I find a bit challenging is when communication feels one-sided. If I’m asking questions and getting only short, one-word answers, it can feel like I’m conducting an interview rather than having a genuine conversation. Also, when someone messages first with just ‘hi,’ it’s a bit hard to keep the conversation going. A little more creativity and effort in starting the conversation would make things flow better.

Healthy communication. Tell me the truth. I can't be with a woman who I can't trust. Also keep the provocative pictures for your husband. The world don't need to see your body. Modest is hottest. Be yourself & the right man will find you. Matthew 6:33-Seek the Kingdom of God & His righteousness & everything will be added to you.

Gal 6:9 NIV): “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” This verse encourages perseverance, reminding us that our efforts will bear fruit in due time if we remain steadfast. Stay strong and keep the faith!

Every believer that approach you is God's workmanship (Eph 2:10). Barring major character and spiritual red flags, don't let "attraction" and "chemistry" dominate your thinking: Scripture has directly against sensuality in 2 Peter 2.

Don’t just make the guy continually come up with questions or prompts and you just answer it in one sentence then don’t follow up with anything or ask questions. Completely 1 sided. I just unmatch. It’s like they just here for the attention honestly.

I think it's important for the woman to remember that you're talking also to someone precious in the sight of God, too. I feel a lot of times women forget that we are also the apple of God's eye.(Ps.17:8) As you want to be appreciated, honored & respected; we do too. Compliments aren't evil either. That brand new dress shirt, trimmed beard,manicured nails,etc. It's most likely for you! Give us a little clue/cue that the date/meeting went well. Maybe the one you're talking to or meet isn't that

I would say that if you don't have the time or interest to regularly communicate with someone, it would be better to not match until you're ready for that. It's disheartening to match with a woman who seems really interesting, and then I discover she only intends to send one short message every two days.

Honest communication is key. Tell us what you’re thinking , let us know how you feel. It can make things so much easier :)

Take it or leave it… 1. Take time to build trust before entering deep levels of mental, emotional, and physical intimacy. 2. I appreciate when a woman gives some kind of indication that she’s interested. Especially online where in-person cues (body language, tone, etc) aren’t seen or sensed. There’s an expectation that men always “cold-call” the woman…but it didn’t quite work like that in The Scripture. Ruth, for example took steps to demonstrate her interest.

My first point would be that we aren’t mind-readers. There’s nothing worse than mixed messages, or giving out false signals. Secondly be prepared to work at something. Don’t just write someone off if there isn’t an immediate connection or you don’t get the spark straight away. Sometimes this whole thing can be a process rather than a tick-box exercise. Hope this helps!

If you want a strong relationship, you're going to have to work for it. There are going to be times when you and your partner don't see eye-to-eye on seemingly important issues. Choosing to shut down and not talk through these issues will only sabatoge your relationship.

Godly men care about character - kindness, integrity, honesty, trustworthiness. Being a Christian is more than a tickbox exercise of church involvement. Your profile gives us a snapshot but these things are only learnt by getting to know you - and it starts with friendship. Give guys a chance - know we can’t fulfil a whole shopping list or solve everything. If you are new/returning to faith, or need to work through stuff, take time to really get rooted in God before even considering dating.

Good men exist, but they may not fit worldly ideals. A godly man might not sweep you off your feet with charm, but he will show love, integrity, and respect. Attraction grows over time—prioritize character over instant chemistry. A good man is honest, consistent, and values faith. Don’t let unrealistic expectations blind you to genuine love. Focus on becoming your best self, trust God’s timing, and stay open to love that brings peace, not just excitement. True love often comes in unexpected ways

I Corinthians 7 & proverbs 31

If you want to make a connection to someone, even if you don't know him yet you need to make the conversation going as well. Most of the time when I match with someone I try to make the conversation but it burn out because the other side answer only with a few words or don't even ask back anything and I have imagination but I hardly can make a good two side conversation when the other side don't even try. This is important in the live date as well.

I also know that when girls are even a little forward sometimes, especially in Christian circles, it can come across as desperate… even when they are not. Look, we all don’t like being vulnerable, but both sides need to put in effort. I think a girl needs to be honest about her interest, as do guys. Speaking as a girl, there is something about a guy pursuing you that feels right. But… that doesn’t mean us ladies should be vague and cryptic.

In terms of team-sport analogy: If you can't beat your competitors don't pursue the star players to team up with you. Look for potentials where you both can grow into star players together. 💪 In terms of groceries: More and more people wait/sit/opt out for the finished products (aka fast food that you only need to put into the oven, microwave or heat up in the pan for a bit) to be in the market instead of just get the ingredients and put time and effort to cook a proper meal with ❤️. 😉

This applies to both genders really but , don’t expect more from someone else than you can actually give yourself. If you want someone who is willing to lead and take responsibility, then you need to also be willing to support them in that

Online profiles need to highlight your priorities and your deal breakers. We all have them. It’s so debilitating spending weeks getting to know a person only to realize it’s not going to work out over something simple.

My views are changed … I believe Christian women can subtlety express interest but then it is up to the man to decide about pursuing her in an endearing way which is non aggressive. Winning a woman over in a Christlike and gentlemanly way is now rare but a joy to see. 💕💕💕💕

In my view, it would help immensely if a lady would let a man know that she is interested in exploring something more than friendship. I am terrible at ‘reading the signs’. Perhaps other men are also. I operate on the basis that, unless a lady communicates to me that she is interested in something more, a lady who is nice to me is simply being nice, polite, and courteous.

Let me give you perhaps the best piece of advice, not just for dating, but for life itself. It’s so simple that it might seem absurd, yet it’s the very thing keeping you from your own happiness.

Men should not display their bare chest either. Not necessary to know who you are.

Be clear and let us know you're not interested, most of us are ok with rejection but ghosting is just disrespectful (just personal experience)

Paint a 3D picture of the totality of who you are. It'd be great if more women wrote more about their unique personality + interests outside of their faith/beliefs. I want to be with someone who shares my faith, of course, but your doctrine and beliefs on their own don't encompass everything. If you're only highlighting your beliefs and faith, it leads me to believe you have no major hobbies, passions, quirks, & interests outside of that; which paints a 2D representation of who you really are

Limit attention seeking behaviour e.g excessive travel, partying, provocative photos if you want a man serious about commitment. Put better photos of yourselves.

Don’t use picture filters! You are beautiful just the way God designed you. We should all be sharing the authentic version of ourselves and that goes for the men as well. Pray! God said in Genesis 2:18 that it is not good for man to be alone, so he will make a helper designed especially for him. Ask the Lord to prepare you and introduce you to that man. He will when both you and the man are ready. Sorry ladies, but Men have a longer preparation time. I’m 51 and God is still preparing me!!!!

Be the one to take the first step. While we all want things to play out like a romance movie, we feel like it’s only a matter of time before one is known as “that guy” for approaching the ladies after Church and whatnot