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Isabel - Team SALT
Tue Dec 24 2024

Do Christian Singles go out alone? 😎

If you're single and don't always have a friend to do stuff with, do you still do the stuff? Eating out, travelling, cinema etc? Do you hold back from doing anything in your singleness because you don't want to do it alone? What have you done alone that you've really enjoyed?

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Anonymous

It’s tough after a divorce BUT YES!!! Making time for yourself is definitely a priority. God is always with us. 🙏🏽

Wed Jan 01 2025
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Angel Noah

Yes all the time! I am literally on a Dinner Cruise by myself now! Enjoy Single Life! Happy New You!

Wed Jan 01 2025
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Quay

I do

Wed Jan 01 2025
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Alex

Yeah. I go out often. I try to go once a week.

Wed Jan 01 2025
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Luke

I wish I did more but struggle with social anxiety has a whole

Wed Jan 01 2025
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Nonny

I relate to this so much. And I end up on my phone which I think makes me look unapproachable.

Wed Jan 01 2025
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Abbey

Yes! I went to a wedding reception tonight and just introduced myself to several people. Would have been more fun with someone but it was still great to get dressed up and do something different. :)

Wed Jan 01 2025
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Michael

Yes I do lol

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Yoseth

Hola buenas tardes 👋🏾

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Justin

Y’a, im going to this Christian club in Nashville tonight. I also ride on my Onewheel, run, and gym. There’s a lot you can do without someone.

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Geidys

Went to Big Church Festival this year, met lots of beautiful people there! Went to Germany, as well, met many beautiful brothers and sisters! Obvs I don't go clubbing, but as long as I honour God, why not?!

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Joshue

Hi happy new year 2025 🎉🎉🎉 GOD bless @You

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Roselee

I have done solo dates, movies ect, but I have never traveled alone. I want to try doing a solo weekend away... Just by thinking about it, it feels so lonely.. 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Coco

No 😅atleast not me

Tue Dec 31 2024
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William

I wouldn’t do any of these things alone. Definitely activities to do with a partner.

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Sally

I stayed 10 days in Portugal and enjoyed my « me » time on restaurants, walk to the beach and the city, take pictures and share some good moments with completely strangers.

Mon Dec 30 2024
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Rory

I'm always up for people joining me for a film. However, I always go to the cinema alone. The after show chat is what helps me process what I've seen.

Mon Dec 30 2024
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Philip

Yes I still do it because I'm looking for someone who'll enjoy doing everything I enjoy doing, which to me means finding all the activities I enjoy doing solo, so if I'm on a date or get stood up, I can still do whatever it was I was planning to do, enjoy it, feel more at ease being in my element and that will make the date itself fo smoother, too.

Mon Dec 30 2024
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Yoseth

Hello Isabel how are you

Mon Dec 30 2024
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Inessa

I do like taking myself to cafés and eating out sometimes. And I have loved traveling alone. I think it’s a beautiful experience that can lead us to grow closer to God, get to know oneself more and meet people. To me it’s like not waiting to be with someone to start living and creating lifelong memories. In the future it can be a common hobby to share with the person we will be with.

Mon Dec 30 2024
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Monz

Being alone doesn’t mean to be depressed lol go eat a steak and lobster and it’s the same price as a dinner for 2!

Mon Dec 30 2024
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Olga

I am uses to do alone so nothing is really annoying

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Danny

Went to my friends place, went to eat with his family

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Yvette

Travel not so much I hate feeling lost and not knowing where I am , and I’m not tech savvy so I rather go with someone who take charge!

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Andrea

How do you work this so confusing

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Yvette

I’m sure most of us don’t like to go or do things alone! Because sometimes is just better with company but there are things I rather do alone like grocery shopping , or when I’m shopping for a gift! I like to take my time. But I do go out by myself, I go to the parks and sit at a restaurant or even at a fair ,I’m a sociable person I will talk to anyone even while waiting in line.

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Mathew

Yes love going to cinema 🎦 by myself

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Misty

No I am always with my daughter or family

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Martin

I do sometimes, including a brief trip to Costa Rica. I am a but shy about being out and about without some friends however.

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Alina

Yes. Sometimes it is good, time to think about everything. But prefer companionship more

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Patrizia

Absolutely! I go anywhere and also have solo travelled.

Sat Dec 28 2024
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Loisa

I go out alone and sometimes i spend my time hanging out to my sisters in Christ ☺️

Sat Dec 28 2024
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Anonymous

No I don’t 😅

Sat Dec 28 2024
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Ronnie

Absolutely 💯 yes

Sat Dec 28 2024
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Anonymous

Luke 4; He was alone, & being tempted by the devil in the wilderness. In this regard, I have nothing to worry about whenever I go out alone.

Sat Dec 28 2024
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Stefan

Hi yes i do stuff alone such as eat out and travel. I went to New Zealand on my own so not daunted by things I would like to put faith on hold as am fairly new to this And would love to share this journey with someone also I know that faith cant be put on hold though

Fri Dec 27 2024
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Amanda

Never alone, always with Jesus. Sometimes He feels even more present when alone in public places. Idk if anyone else feels this too!?

Fri Dec 27 2024
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Angel

I do things alone. I have been for movies, fancy dinners, travels and anything that I wish to. I don't wait for people to join. I do have a lot of friends but sometimes they are all busy and I don't like holding myself back from doing anything just because all my friends are busy or out of town 😄

Fri Dec 27 2024
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Angel

Also I enjoy my own company. Someone recently said to me that if one can't enjoy their own company, how can they expect someone else to enjoy their company in a relationship and that's quite true.

Fri Dec 27 2024
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Steph

@Angel I totally agree. I am always cautious to travel alone (maybe it’s just a mental hurdle?) but I believe you have to live life and participate in it fully, or it will just kind of slip right on by you - and what a travesty that would be!

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Sakari

Ofcourse! I love new experiences, and doing them by yourself you can truly focus on it.

Fri Dec 27 2024
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Anonymous

Yes. For now I enjoy my singleness and my time alone. The peacefulness I feel is satisfying.

Fri Dec 27 2024
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Evelyn

I must say that yes I do go out and sometimes do things by myself. I am a mom so I’m always surrounded by my kids, but sometimes I do enjoy going out and doing some stuff by myself like going to the movies or getting a massage or going out to eat if it’s not that one of my friends or family could join me.

Thu Dec 26 2024
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Anonymous

I do everything alone, just went out to watch Gladiator 2 and after that I had dinner at a restaurant.

Thu Dec 26 2024
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Kaye

Yes, sometimes I prefer to go shopping or go to the mall alone, I have my own time and I'm comfortable where to go or try foods that I can enjoy even alone.

Thu Dec 26 2024
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Mer

Hmm. It’s actually best to have someone special with you as he or is she is your best support system. But as a single person, you can lean with trusted friends. It’s also the best way to build friendships while you’re waiting for your significant other.

Thu Dec 26 2024
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Marco-António

Life is for living. I do many things alone, it's just how things are. I usually travel alone, but I can miss companionship

Thu Dec 26 2024
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Anonymous

As a dad i can’t afford to

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Anna

I’m a mom, so I’m never alone and always have a partner to do everything with lol. but yes apart from that I do things alone all the time mostly going to parks reading my Bible

Wed Dec 25 2024
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JG

even married people go out alone. Our partners will not always want to do the things we want to do, and it’s definitely okay to do them alone. It’s liberating when you travel alone, because you get to do only the things that you want to do! 🤣

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Mey

I used to live with family or flatmates, but I recently moved into my own place and now do most things on my own. While I still hang out with a small group of friends weekly, I’ve started going out for morning walks, breakfast, and trips to the mall by myself. I haven’t tried going to the movies or traveling alone yet, but this has been a season of learning and truly enjoying my own company.

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Nanti

Dear Mey. You pretty inspiring. I like your profile too. I also do bible end times research that goes into jewish roots at times (happy hanukkah). - my intro. dont have premium either lol - comment: ive thought of doing stuff myself in recent times but dont have the impetus currently. I used to Theres a prophetic word that said live alone in 2025, work alone but obviously i dont think its ruling out marriage. Closing line: Would be cool to chat. Would love to hear about your business

Thu Dec 26 2024
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Kelly

I've been to the cinema plenty of times by myself, I actually really enjoy it. Done the eating out alone a couple of times, which feels weird in comparison. Sometimes feels like I'm being judged for it (whether that's actually true or not). I'm just not as used to that. And maybe because you're actually meant to be quiet at the cinema lol 😆

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Jo

Yeah, I totally do things alone. Cinema only once in a blue moon… travelling, I travel alone sometimes, but I always go to stay with family or friends overseas… so it’s not completely alone… but that’s a perk of being a YWAMer… you end up with friends all over the world :) Though I prefer doing things with people…

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Marco

I often go out and eat and shopping alone. Grocery. Um clothes and needs. When youngsr to thr singles dancss alone as well as roller skating at roler rinks alone. But of course prefer eith someone special.

Wed Dec 25 2024
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iranilde

@Marco Hello, how are you?

Fri Dec 27 2024
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Anonymous

I love traveling alone. Having more friends and learning new culture.

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Taylor

I’m rolling with my bros 😄 Traveling, dining out, anything adventurous, large social groups, evangelism: it’s a great thing to have friends more outgoing than you are to piggyback off their energy.

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Stephanie

I love it and I do my favorite activities alone all the time!

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Tony

Depends how annoying people are being!

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Darren

By "Grace Alone" Given "Faith Alone" In "Christ Alone" Through "Scripture Alone" "Glory to God Alone"

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Francois

Hahahaha Darren. Thats funny.

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Kristina

I loooove traveling alone! I do most things alone, but experiencing new places on my own itinerary is wonderful. That's

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Jude

@Kristina I recommend England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 🙃

Wed Dec 25 2024
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Kristina

@Jude 😂

Wed Dec 25 2024
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JD

@Kristina What's your most memorable experience so far?

Sun Dec 29 2024
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Kel

I go to the movies alone a lot. Been single so long I’m used to my own company

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Justin 👑

@Kel awh mahn I pray you find a really good partner soon ❤️

Tue Dec 31 2024
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Jason

I take my dog Hezekiah with me most places, besides church, he gets me to be more social , Parks are fun especially caves, restaurants with outdoor dining when there is nice weather , Oh he loves big fireworks 🎇 , we have not tried outdoor theatre in a park yet , he likes people watching at high school football 🏈 games with lawn chair 👍 I have done some road trips to visit old friends.... He goes with me grocery shopping but stays in car besides walking around each parking lot

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Jude

Haha I went out alone yesterday.

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Oasis

I totally take myself out on dates. I find it invigorating. One time I met a fellow Christian who was travelling from Malaysia and we were catching a Brisbane ferry and she decided to sit next to me. We ended up having dinner together but that wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t decide to go out by myself. We still talk on WhatsApp which is pretty cool. Going out by myself gave me the opportunity to meet someone new and who knows how God has worked through this interaction :)

Tue Dec 24 2024
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David

Gym training, coffee shop time, walks out...

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Javier

I am at peace being on my own and single. I like to go out and eat on my own. I love going to new restaurants trying out new foods. I like going for walks on my own. I praise the Lord for being single. It has made me love myself for who I am, and it has made me the person I am today. I know my single status will change soon. I am hopeful and praying. May the peace of the Lord be with all you. I give thanks for my Father in heaven for the trials I faced to get where I am today.

Tue Dec 24 2024
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Oritsetsola Susan Abraham

I love treating myself to lovely meals in lovely restaurants. I am now getting more adventurous about solo travelling. Tried it once and thoroughly enjoyed it. Planning one for 2025 🙏💃🙏

Tue Dec 24 2024
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