I would steer clear
@Simba Yeah but I wanted to know if other people had to deal with that kind of people too 🤷🏾♀️
I would steer clear
@Simba Yeah but I wanted to know if other people had to deal with that kind of people too 🤷🏾♀️
Firstly - tell them their behaviour is not acceptable! Whilst we are told to turn the other cheek, Jesus also told people when they were in the wrong! Secondly - report rudeness. So it hopefully gets spotted by admin. Thirdly - unlike and/or block! There are many lovely people out there and eventually you will find one (so I keep telling myself).
@Christopher Thabk you for your advices 🙏🏽🙌
@Nathalie I think it is very simple... Unmatch and move on... I've come across a very mean and rude lady also... She was asking me for money.. She was saying she isn't gonna reply to my text if I don't send her money... I quickly unmatched her and move on... After talking with her for like 1week
@Godson thank you for your feedback ! I do unmatched but moving on is the hardest part because it’s unfair to be treated that way when you are nothing but nice to them ! 🙄
@Nathalie That's correct.. But you don't really have control over how people treat you. It's on them... You only have control over yourself and how you treat people...
@Godson true !
@Godson 😳
@GD that's the world we live in
How did Jesus react to people that was rude ??? He said nothing
@Jonathan I believe he gave them love words to exhort them, no ?! 🤔 But yes I agree most times it’s better to say nothing and move on 👍
If you're disappointed in the men, ask the Father to send you His choice instead, and use the platform to make friends.
@Michelle amen to that 🙌
This is slightly different, but I've noticed a tendency for men to ask me to talk to them on another site. That is a trafficker move, and I'll recommend any woman to unlatch a person who asks that very early in the discussion.
@Michelle *unMatch
@Michelle woooh I didn’t expect that but you are right we should be careful 🙏🏽
@Nathalie Yeah. Both of them asked me within a few lines of dialogue to talk to them on WhatsApp instead. After the second time, I decided something is probably up with that.
@Michelle thats scary 😱
@Nathalie Do not loose faith for we walk among the chosen and the ones in need. Keep your eyes on the Lord, He Will help you see His chosen ones for you, Some temporary but with purpose for you spiritual & personal growth, and eventually, the one He has for you to be his ideal help. In the meantime, persist, discern and instruct with Gods Word, for those that are not aligned with the Lord and the purpose of this platform. God vlees you and keep you ❤️
@Ana Amelia Hernandez Vigil Amen to that 🙏🏽 Thank you very much for your wise words 🙌🙌 Much appreciated
That's very sad. 😥 I would report/block and move on. Focus on the nice ones 😊
@Jo Will do starting today 👍🙏🏽
Report them.
@Lachlan lol well not THAT rude to be reported but I was wondering why people were like that I guess … especially those who claimed to be Christians ?!
@Nathalie perhaps textual communication obscures the intent behind what they typed and they didn't think they were being rude? I dunno. I also think there's cultural differences on here no doubt.
@Lachlan I do believe that too but yeah I guess some people are just rude and u have to accept that I can’t change that 🤷🏾♀️
@Lachlan a waste of time sadly - Salt does nothing.
@Marina well I don’t know if they do nothing but I really hope they are at least trying 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Whenever you come across a rude guy, block his profile and file a report (if you feel it's necessary). I'm sure that not all of us are rude and you may come across a really nice guy at some point. Remember that the religious spirit within Christianity is a big problem and only if we (men & women) decide to have a deep relationship with our Lord is how we can be transformed by Him and become kind people. Be blessed! 😇
@Juan Carlos AMEN TO THAT 🙏🏽
I have learned it's not those that confessed CHRIST but those who have HIS FRUITS and LOVE flourishing in their lives that are worth the time of getting to know: first and foremost as a brother in Christ. As for the rest, be thankful their rotten fruit was displayed early so you can quickly say NEXT😊 and Of course say a prayer for them but dust your feet and keep it pushing Forward to God's best for your life.
@Janine you are right 🙏🏽 thank you very much for your feedback 🙌
@Janine @Nathalie Sorry you’ve experienced this Nathalie, yes there are some. And agreed was just writing pretty much the same as Janine. Wish them well, say goodbye, thank God you dodged a bullet by them showing you their fruit early on, use it as an opportunity to grow in love & forgiveness, and be grateful you still have the opportunity to meet a kind man 🤓❤️
@Ana definitely a chance to grow in character😁 @Nathalie, you got this b/c God got you! And hopefully bringing this topic to the forefront will encourage us all to self- evaluate: Are we showing the fruit of kindness in our day to day interactions?
@Ana yeah it’s just sad I guess ! Luckily for them God didn’t give me strength but just patience instead 😅😅😅 Kidding ! No men were armed … ! 😜
@Janine Amen sis and I’m just happy to be able to connect with people like your girls 😇😇😇 It’s refreshing 🙌🙌🙌 @Ana
@Janine 💯😊
@Nathalie aww bless you Nathalie, likewise! 🥰
@Nathalie 😂😂😂 should I start calling you Peter? 😄
@Ana maybe 😜😅😅😅😅
@Nathalie and Ana Likewise ladies, glad we did connect. And I agree it helps to know that others get it...You deserve the love you give for sure!
@Janine 🥰