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Nathalie
Sun Oct 20 2024
I have unfortunately come across some very rude men on this site … aren’t we supposed to be children of God and a representation of Christ ?! Very disappointing... how do you handle this kind of situation?
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Simba

I would steer clear

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Simba Yeah but I wanted to know if other people had to deal with that kind of people too 🤷🏾‍♀️

Mon Oct 21 2024
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Anonymous

Firstly - tell them their behaviour is not acceptable! Whilst we are told to turn the other cheek, Jesus also told people when they were in the wrong! Secondly - report rudeness. So it hopefully gets spotted by admin. Thirdly - unlike and/or block! There are many lovely people out there and eventually you will find one (so I keep telling myself).

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Christopher Thabk you for your advices 🙏🏽🙌

Mon Oct 21 2024
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Godson

@Nathalie I think it is very simple... Unmatch and move on... I've come across a very mean and rude lady also... She was asking me for money.. She was saying she isn't gonna reply to my text if I don't send her money... I quickly unmatched her and move on... After talking with her for like 1week

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Godson thank you for your feedback ! I do unmatched but moving on is the hardest part because it’s unfair to be treated that way when you are nothing but nice to them ! 🙄

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Godson

@Nathalie That's correct.. But you don't really have control over how people treat you. It's on them... You only have control over yourself and how you treat people...

Mon Oct 21 2024
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Nathalie

@Godson true !

Mon Oct 21 2024
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GD

@Godson 😳

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Godson

@GD that's the world we live in

Mon Oct 21 2024
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Anonymous

How did Jesus react to people that was rude ??? He said nothing

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Jonathan I believe he gave them love words to exhort them, no ?! 🤔 But yes I agree most times it’s better to say nothing and move on 👍

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Michelle

If you're disappointed in the men, ask the Father to send you His choice instead, and use the platform to make friends.

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Michelle amen to that 🙌

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Michelle

This is slightly different, but I've noticed a tendency for men to ask me to talk to them on another site. That is a trafficker move, and I'll recommend any woman to unlatch a person who asks that very early in the discussion.

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Michelle

@Michelle *unMatch

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Michelle woooh I didn’t expect that but you are right we should be careful 🙏🏽

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Michelle

@Nathalie Yeah. Both of them asked me within a few lines of dialogue to talk to them on WhatsApp instead. After the second time, I decided something is probably up with that.

Mon Oct 21 2024
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Nathalie

@Michelle thats scary 😱

Mon Oct 21 2024
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Ana Amelia Hernandez Vigil

@Nathalie Do not loose faith for we walk among the chosen and the ones in need. Keep your eyes on the Lord, He Will help you see His chosen ones for you, Some temporary but with purpose for you spiritual & personal growth, and eventually, the one He has for you to be his ideal help. In the meantime, persist, discern and instruct with Gods Word, for those that are not aligned with the Lord and the purpose of this platform. God vlees you and keep you ❤️

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Ana Amelia Hernandez Vigil Amen to that 🙏🏽 Thank you very much for your wise words 🙌🙌 Much appreciated

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Jo

That's very sad. 😥 I would report/block and move on. Focus on the nice ones 😊

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Jo Will do starting today 👍🙏🏽

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Lachlan

Report them.

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Lachlan lol well not THAT rude to be reported but I was wondering why people were like that I guess … especially those who claimed to be Christians ?!

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Lachlan

@Nathalie perhaps textual communication obscures the intent behind what they typed and they didn't think they were being rude? I dunno. I also think there's cultural differences on here no doubt.

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Lachlan I do believe that too but yeah I guess some people are just rude and u have to accept that I can’t change that 🤷🏾‍♀️

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Marina

@Lachlan a waste of time sadly - Salt does nothing.

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Marina well I don’t know if they do nothing but I really hope they are at least trying 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Juan Carlos

Whenever you come across a rude guy, block his profile and file a report (if you feel it's necessary). I'm sure that not all of us are rude and you may come across a really nice guy at some point. Remember that the religious spirit within Christianity is a big problem and only if we (men & women) decide to have a deep relationship with our Lord is how we can be transformed by Him and become kind people. Be blessed! 😇

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Juan Carlos AMEN TO THAT 🙏🏽

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Janine

I have learned it's not those that confessed CHRIST but those who have HIS FRUITS and LOVE flourishing in their lives that are worth the time of getting to know: first and foremost as a brother in Christ. As for the rest, be thankful their rotten fruit was displayed early so you can quickly say NEXT😊 and Of course say a prayer for them but dust your feet and keep it pushing Forward to God's best for your life.

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Janine you are right 🙏🏽 thank you very much for your feedback 🙌

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Ana

@Janine @Nathalie Sorry you’ve experienced this Nathalie, yes there are some. And agreed was just writing pretty much the same as Janine. Wish them well, say goodbye, thank God you dodged a bullet by them showing you their fruit early on, use it as an opportunity to grow in love & forgiveness, and be grateful you still have the opportunity to meet a kind man 🤓❤️

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Janine

@Ana definitely a chance to grow in character😁 @Nathalie, you got this b/c God got you! And hopefully bringing this topic to the forefront will encourage us all to self- evaluate: Are we showing the fruit of kindness in our day to day interactions?

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Ana yeah it’s just sad I guess ! Luckily for them God didn’t give me strength but just patience instead 😅😅😅 Kidding ! No men were armed … ! 😜

Sun Oct 20 2024
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@Janine Amen sis and I’m just happy to be able to connect with people like your girls 😇😇😇 It’s refreshing 🙌🙌🙌 @Ana

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Ana

@Janine 💯😊

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Ana

@Nathalie aww bless you Nathalie, likewise! 🥰

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Ana

@Nathalie 😂😂😂 should I start calling you Peter? 😄

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Nathalie

@Ana maybe 😜😅😅😅😅

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Janine

@Nathalie and Ana Likewise ladies, glad we did connect. And I agree it helps to know that others get it...You deserve the love you give for sure!

Sun Oct 20 2024
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Ana

@Janine 🥰

Mon Oct 21 2024
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