Nightmare dating stories 😱

I have been single for a little over 3 years. I have met a few “Christians” and one of not a few men have not been thrilled when I bring up scripture. I’m puzzled by this. But one guy went out of his way to have me believe he was a believer, right up until he quoted a line from Mad Maxx beyond thunder dome as scripture….”no matter where you go, there you are.” Said it was 2 Peter. I don’t know about anyone else but I had a good laugh!

Guy off bumble told me he arrived at the restaurant then blocked my calls when I just parked the car Later apologized saying he didn't even come

A guy I had been on 3 dates with drunk called me at 4 in the morning, trying to get me to let him come round. I obviously wouldn't and he hung up in a strop. He then accidentally called me back and I heard him telling the taxi driver that I was a ***** he was trying to ***k from Tinder. He then realised I was on the phone, I wished him a safe ride home and never heard from him again.

I was late for dinner and it rained 😅

In high school, I met a guy at a week-long summer choir camp at the college I now go to. We flirted a lot but didn’t leave the camp with any labels or anything. Less than a week after parting, he texted me saying that he liked me and would like to plan a date. I was on board, initially, and we planned a date in his hometown that was 30 min from me. The date was a football game where the my now college team was playing.

This happened to me many years ago with someone I had gone to high school with (early college years). We were friends until that point clearly lol

I met someone off bumble for a movie date & I walked her to her car after the movie & she tells me she's a witch & I was like hmm?...I didn't know if she was playing or not so I went along w/it & I was asking her questions about if witches actually use wands & stuff. She opens her trunk & starts organizing it & she goes, get in, I'm going to throw you in my trunk & I was like no thank you & politely ended the date.

I once went on a date with a woman I connected with on an app - turned out she was the ex-wife of an old Army buddy

I once met a guy at dancing and we went on a date. We went to a restaurant and he started crying, shaking uncontrollably and couldnt carry a conversation properly. It was such a shame because up until that point I had really liked him, but I knew I wouldnt be able to cope with a man with so much emotional baggage. We did become friends, i felt sorry for him so I invited him to the church Christmas party and he started going to church, so it was all good 😊

Part 3 What was my surprise, that two days later when I was taking the shuttle from the airport to my hotel, he was getting on too! He had lied to me about his trip, he was obviously surprised to see me, he ignored me and we both practically pretended that we had not seen each other. Thank God for dark glasses 😂

Part 2 He told me that he was going on a business trip for a couple of weeks and wouldn't have much communication (I understood his hint perfectly), he was going to travel to his country, Colombia. I also told him that I was going on vacation to Cancun for two weeks and that I was going to take advantage of the time to disconnect and rest.

Part 1 A few years ago I went out with a Colombian boy, he was cute, polite, had something to talk about and we got along quite well. He invited me to dinner with him one night to meet in person and we went to an Italian restaurant, but 'oh surprise' when we saw each other in person, the charm wore off. We both tried to make dinner as cordial and polite as possible, but we knew it wasn't going to go any further and that we wouldn't speak again. The worst thing was that during dinner...

No dating nightmares other than not actually getting any dates…just scammers and men who ask me to support them, like the guy who said “we can get to know each other and maybe become boyfriend and girlfriend” then immediately proceeded to ask me to buy him a $3500 camera so that he could achieve his goal of producing a movie for a US film festival saying “I swear to God I’ll pay you back” I can’t respect a man who’d ask me for money before even asking me to be his girlfriend

He said he was strict orthodox, gave me his holy bible and holy necklace, books about holy family, talking about having a holy family, went to church together, pray together, but then after 2 months I discovered he was putting hearts to every single east lap dancer and escort on fb. Is this included to orthodoxy faith? Cuz in my faith this is not accepted 😅😅😅😅

Part 3 He said he would go to the nearest bank ATM to withdraw money 😂😂😂 I apologized to him and to the person at the ice cream stand. He went to get money and I stayed as collateral 😂😂😂 at Nieves's stand until he returned. The good thing is that he came back quickly 😂😂😂

Part 2 We died when the ice cream came and he started eating his ice cream, and when I wanted to pay for the ice cream, I realized that I didn't have any money 😂😂😂 (I forgot that I went to the supermarket and I ran out of money). I immediately told him that I didn't have any money😂😂😂

Part 1 A suitor invited me to dinner on the first date. We ate very rich, then we went walking to a plazuela where there was a tianguis, there was a stand selling of artisanal ice cream, he asked me if I wanted a ice cream, i said yes, but he realized that he no longer had money cash. He only betrayed his bank card. I said to him that I cheat on money to pay for the ice cream, so we ask for a ice cream for me and another for him.

Well years ago I went a Christian dating site and found a girl I liked. I messaged her and I got the same message back about 3 times this back and forth happened before I realised I was reading my own mail.

My nightmare dating was dating my ex 🙄

Hola

I fell for the over the top love bombing, Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde swindle. Classic narcissist. When I heard about the encounters others had with this personality type the stories were always exactly the same. Eerie.

I invited lady to meet after several years. Sme friends told me she was into me. The day I was going to meet her she drove slowly being super mad at me.. with hateful eyes. But she didn't even get out of her car.

I’ve had heaps of GHOSTING don’t know why 🤷? I never do to someone like that. Is it yes or no! That’s all. Never waste anyone’s time.

My date was over 1 hour late, seemed high or on medication, not very sociable in person, and didn't finish her meal before the restuarant needed to close...oh dear 😅🤷‍♂️

Interestingly enough 😅 I've been ghosted quite a few times.

Think I'd be banned if I said what my experience was.

A person from here started a conversation with me on messenger. He made a disgusting sexist comment on me, because I exposed a vulnerable side of me, when I told him, why I can't be with someone, who had an extremely big beard. He said, that his best bible teachers, had a big beard. My relevant ones didn't have one. I won't put servants of God inside of boxes, like beard or no board.

I walked into a place once and Rick Warren was there already....

Has anyone had someone send a picture of them “exposing” themselves????? Sorry if this is too inappropriate to ask. But I had a guy do that to me and it was one of the most uncomfortable things I’ve ever been through 🤦🏽‍♀️

One girl used me for a taxi ride. Another just didn't turn up and started posting stories which she was far away doing other things

Worst date I have experienced, when this one guy claimed that he was single while the truth came out that he was actually already married.

Well first- If I asked a question, and dared interrupt 30 minutes into his reply, I must not really want to know. Secondly, he could talk for 2 hours without needing a response from me. Third, he believed himself to be absent of bias in logic. But crazier than that…

I met a guy on here! We spoke for less than 24 hrs cuz he accused me of judging him. Then, he asked me my type. I told him mostly dated hispanic guys. He then replied ohhh no black cock 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️. Immediately blocked him.

I showed up to an ice cream date and no lie, the guy’s car was half melted!! He told me it just caught fire last night. The ice cream machine was broken then he said well I guess this is done…

My very first online boyfriend ghosted me, I think that's scary. 😅😅

I hang out with a girl on a date, my head hurts talking to her . Later I felt asleep

Worst dating experience. Sharing that I value a relationship with God and that it’s important to me that my partner is a Christian too. The reply: “I f###ing dig that sh#t”.

I have the ultimate, the one that will depress you. I was engaged to someone I’d known since I was 4, he was five days older than me, we’d grown up together, when I was 20. I’d just become a Christian and he thought the church was brainwashing me, he saw such a change in me, he also kept upsetting me so I ended our relationship, I felt God told me too. I did love him. He killed himself five years ago.

My worst date was when the guy was telling a story and he accidentally gave me his real name - I googled him and found out he was married! Fun times!!

First date with someone who has road rage and was speeding withe in the car. Then openly admitted to having an alcohol problem. I thank God that he put a spirit in me that allows folks to be comfortable saying things they would normally try to hide. A lot of times people will say "I don't know what just made me say that" or something like that. In my head, I be like I DO! 🤭 My Father definitely don't play about me!🤍🙌🏽

Too many horrible experiences 😢

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Don't want to share nightmare date... but one funny one 😄 went to see a movie with a guy, and selected some candies , also salted licorice candies- (normal here in Finland)... I offered and fed the guy with those salty fish candies from my candy collection and he kept eating and I assume he liked licorice.... Until after the movie he said he didn't really like those candies .... but it was so funny and I still wonder why he didn't say anything during the movie 🤣 He ate many of them 😅

I met a woman from another Christian dating site. She was actually a Buddhist and spent a lot of time trying to explain Christianity and Buddhism fit together... I dont judge someone for their faith, but that was kind of... odd.

Just remembered, I was talking to another man, and after a few weeks, he suddenly messaged, you’re well old… um, how am I supposed to respond to that?

This thread is so entertaining 😄 I guess I have been quite lucky afterall, although I did meet a guy that tried to convince me to become a nudist in our first conversation 🫣 There wasn’t any second conversation after that 😌

What id really like to know is what tiktok idiot started this trend that caused all guys under 6ft to be undateable last girl i asked out pretended to be deaf. Whats really sad is ive heard the just friends speech in so many forms that all it does now is aggravate me to no end why cant women just tell you the truth and say im sorry im just not attracted to you.

Lets see cause i could and have wrote a book on this personal favorite was driving 2.5 hours to meet someone that invited me to breakfast at her home only for her to lock the door and call the cops when i got there. Lets see then years before i had a ring thrown in my face as a girl who i had been dating for 9 months said i dont want it and i dont want you. Was also told once i was the ugliest guy a girl ever dated also overheard her say that if id just hit her she could love me.

I have a lot too, but I will share a funny one. I ordered a goats cheese salad but I didn’t know that my date was literally scared of cheese. Unbeknownst to me, he asked the waitress to remove the cheese before it came. All that was on it was lettuce and some beet and a few nuts I think. I asked the waitress for the cheese and when it came, the guy started freaking out like it was a horror movie or like he had seen a ghost 🤣🤣. He was a super intelligent lawyer but had a few odd quirks 🤣

As a teenager I travelled across country to meet someone and she had suggested ice skating. She met me off the train, we walked less than a mile to the arena and then I spent an hour trying to catch her up on the ice. We got off the ice and I went home. Barely spoke at all 🤣🤣 not the hand holding I envisioned

A long time ago I went on a date with a guy who in real time seemed older than the age he told me on the dating app where we spoke. He lied to me. And in the end I went home regretting wasting my time with him because I didn’t like him. 😩

Bom dia a todos com a paz do Senhor Jesus

Dios le bendiga 🙏🙏🙏

PTSD incoming

I went on a date with a woman whose arrogance revealed itself quickly. She took everything I said out of context and turned it back on me during conversation. For example, I told her my eyes were hazel and changed color. Before I could get the next word out to explain that means they refract light more than other eyes do, she interrupted with, "Your eyes don't change color. They just refract light from around you." I was done by that point, so that sealed the deal. I dodged that bullet.

I think I could write a book on this, I had a woman on salt, invite me as a first date to a lecture on whale and dolphins noises with a question and answer session after, *There us nothing in my profile to suggest that this is something that would interest me* The last women to contact me seem to be testing me on Galatians 5:22-23 as out the blue she just started sending abusive messages, I’m assuming it must of been a fake profile, it was quite funny in the end as I replied with scripture

What's "Date"?

It wasn’t exactly a date but I somehow ended up going swimming in the sea at 1am with a guy one January 🥶. Anyway you guessed it but our clothes got swept away by the sea… and my car keys were in my jeans pocket 😭. It was never mentioned again lol

He took me to a play, where he fell asleep before intermission…

I spoke to another man I met on here who wanted to sent me videos of him naked pretending to be a cat!!!

I started talking to a man, saw a lot of red flags for anger issues but kept talking to him because I felt sorry for him, he’s ill but so am I, and because I felt guilty just leaving, last spoke to him on my birthday when he wished me happy birthday and then went on a tirade, getting really angry, shouting about people not caring, and his parents don’t care, and God doesn’t care, he just went on and on, and when I sighed from exhaustion, he said you don’t care and ended the call. I blocked him.

I have too many! One was 35 & I was 27 at the time. After dinner he wanted to see a movie but my choice. The only one showing close was a thriller/horror. Spent most of the movie comforting him while he was terrified on the floor of the theatre! If anything, the movie was boring as 😂

I had a date where the guy came to collect me to go out for dinner. I had baked a cake because it was his birthday.. He proceeded to say thanks, curl up on my sofa and fall asleep 😂 (we missed dinner 🙄)

I've never been on a nightmare date. I've actually been blessed with one or two great dates that were planned and led by godly christian men. Obviously, these didn't progress unto a relationship as I'm still single, but I'm grateful that the Lord blessed me with the opportunity to meet some great gentleman on this walk thus far. Great men just want us to feel safe and comfortable. We just need to give them the chance to.

I went on a date with a lad in the Army, went for a walk on the beach and then jumped a few fences to get back to the car, he went inside to get his wallet because he felt the date went well but he never came back out because he was put on court marshall for walking in the firing range with a civilian!! (Maybe he just didn't want to continue the date!)

Never been on one 😬

I once dated a man who was a sloppy eater. I was quite serious about him and was willing to look past this. But I was spared, because he ultimately didn't want to commit. One time we ate at a Panera bread. He had a salad with feta cheese and dressing. As he was eating, the dressing and feta were all over his face, and he was talking too. It looked slimy. I almost threw up.

I went on a ( friendly) coffee date with a lady off Facebook who told me she was a psychotherapist and that I'd broken my arm because I didn't get on with my mother, amongst other things. It was one of the most offensive hours of my life. I was just glad I wasn't a paying client & realised how low the bar would be for actual dating!

Never been on a date in my entire life but my experience on Salt trying to find someone to date has kind of been a nightmare to be honest. No one responds to my intros and even the few intros I’ve gotten from others the conversation doesn’t last and they just end up unmatching suddenly. I do know part of it is that I don’t have much in common with those that have messaged first and I think my autism makes it really difficult to carry a conversation as well.