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Isabel - Team SALT
Fri Feb 07 2025

Things Christian singles are sick of hearing

Give me all the unsolicited advice you've heard from family members, people at church, strangers...

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Rebeca🇧🇷's avatar
Rebeca🇧🇷

Where is the cat ?

Sat Feb 15 2025
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Austin's avatar
Austin

Maybe “you’ll meet her when God says you’re ready.” It makes it sound like we have to have a certain level of spiritual maturity in order to marry. Like you have to have everything together. I don’t want to be a mess when u meet her but I know for certain I won’t be perfect. It just sounds like married people are more spiritually mature than singles with the desire to marry.

Wed Feb 12 2025
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Jose's avatar
Jose

Don’t worry, she will come along when you are both ready. ( boy we must be slow learners 🤣)

Tue Feb 11 2025
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Natalie Olivia's avatar
Natalie Olivia

@Jose 😆😂😅

Tue Feb 11 2025
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Jason's avatar
Jason

You must be the most gifted person I have ever met .... For being single for sooooo long and still serving Jesus ....

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Why aren't you married yet?

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Rose's avatar
Rose

@James can you imagine 😁

Mon Feb 10 2025
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Nida's avatar
Nida

Wanna join single till rapture contract? 🤣😁

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

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Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Christian Daniel I think it’s more about our priorities. Are we seeking human connection above the glorious and honourable connection we have with Christ? Remember that Christ died so we could have this connection and have eternal life. That’s more than any lover or spouse could give.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@Oasis i think you missed the point. Also, being married doesn't exclude any of the things you mentioned above

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Christian Daniel perhaps you missed my point as well.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Christian Daniel the statement you shared is dismissive and is a shame it’s been used in a dismissive way. Jesus was focused on serving the Kingdom to come and we are partially already participating in that right now since Christ died for us to take back what Adam and Eve forfeited. As Jesus is our example in all things, perhaps there is a point of truth in that dismissing statement that is worth contemplating on.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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MJ's avatar
MJ

“Jesus is your husband now”😅

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@MJ Jesus has always been the Lover of Our Soul more than anyone else. It would be nice if this was celebrated more. We are to desire the ring and desire God even more.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Angela's avatar
Angela

@Oasis Very true and the same could be said for married people. But unfortunately it's often used as a way of dismissing people's very real, God given desire for marriage.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Angela I agree. Which is a shame. I’m sure many have good intentions when they say that but it is unfortunately quite dismissive. I just want to take this moment to reassure you, that you are enough, more than enough. You are made after the image of the Most High and He adores you dearly and He is going to give you the best. Whatever the best is, we can trust He will provide according to your needs in Him. Amen 🙏🏼

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Jonathan's avatar
Jonathan

@MJ nobody says this. And the people that say they are "married to Jesus".... should probably get out more

Thu Feb 20 2025
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May's avatar
May

Make a list!

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Emma's avatar
Emma

Don't worry about it your yong you have plenty of time to think about marriage. Here this all through my twenties & thirties. I'm now 40

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Lily's avatar
Lily

"Be careful waiting for God's will, the train is going to miss you and you will be single forever"

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Jonathan's avatar
Jonathan

@Lily .... said no christian ever.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Allie's avatar
Allie

Recently divorced and well meaning married Christian’s say “Jesus is your husband now” …. thanks

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Allie Jesus has always been your Husband though. No one could love you as much as He does. It would be nice if this was celebrated more rather than being used as a cop out comfort line.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Allie's avatar
Allie

Yes absolutely! I’d rather they put their arm around me and say “you’re going to be ok, I’m here for you”. I already know Jesus loves me!

Wed Feb 12 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

“KJV only” I used to be part of the KJV only following and I’m glad I’ve let go and let God open my heart and mind to other perspectives.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Blair's avatar
Blair

Hey @Oasis Just out of curiosity, what version did you read that used the word ‘subjecting’ instead of ‘submitting’?

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Blair I use BibleHub and compare many versions as well as look into the Interlinear Bible on BibleHub to analyse the original word. I hope you find peace Blaire. Sorry to hear this is still on your mind 🕊️May you not focus on something of difference that you miss out on the beautiful things we may have in common that could give glory to God. 🌺

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Blair's avatar
Blair

@Oasis Erm…thanks. I’m at peace with it. Was just interested in the source of the discrepancy. I find the issue caused by the variable translations of the Bible fascinating and I want to learn the truth of it. I mentioned it before, but the ways in which different words are used can completely change the nature of God. Can show examples if you need.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Blair's avatar
Blair

@Oasis I highly recommend anyone go and watch the videos on the ‘Truth is Christ’ YouTube channel. ‘The Golden Sequence’ video is a good start. The true word of God is awe inspiring!

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

“It’ll happen when you least expect it”

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Loiwe Grace's avatar
Loiwe Grace

Why are you still single!🙄

Sat Feb 08 2025
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suzette's avatar
suzette

@Loiwe Grace i can answer that now☺️. I said maybe lack of men who pursue me, not right time, maybe God has prepared me. I used everything to help me😂

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Jonathan's avatar
Jonathan

"The papal decree says that we should...*insert pre-historic dating advice*"

Sat Feb 08 2025
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SaMa's avatar
SaMa

"Sarah was 90 when she gave birth. It's never too late."

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Jinger Desire's avatar
Jinger Desire

@SaMa hahaha

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@SaMa exactly! On October 13, 2021, Star Trek’s Captain Kirk, actor William Shatner, became the first 90-year-old to go into space. it really is never too late! haha 😂🚀

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Jonathan's avatar
Jonathan

Did he survive re-entry and make it back to the maternity ward in time?

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Natalie Olivia's avatar
Natalie Olivia

😂😂😅

Tue Feb 11 2025
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yannykgw's avatar
yannykgw

"Wir mĂźssen warten"

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Jenny's avatar
Jenny

@Chris @Oritsetsola Susan Abraham me too! My friend had a prophetic that I’d meet my man and we’d do ministry together. Her advice was just to keep on in ministry & the Christian world. I think the prophecy could be true but the application was wrong.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Lachlan's avatar
Lachlan

Don't worry <person we know> didn't get married till they were 58!

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Florent's avatar
Florent

Some women will keep wasting god's plan because they expect everything from God and/or their husband instead of starting to build the family they want asap. It's not something being said but a lot of people make that mistake of laziness.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Rebeca's avatar
Rebeca

@Florent Hi my brother, very interesting your comment. It's a good perspective. But What do you mean with: "some women waste time expecting everything from God?"

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Florent's avatar
Florent

@Rebeca I mean they not only expect God to send a potential husband but they will expect God to send the perfect husband, including perfect personality, activity, money, etc. Which is ridiculous because know better than us what we truly need, but they'll stick to unrealistic expectations and turn down the men God actually sent them.

Mon Feb 10 2025
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Florent's avatar
Florent

Also some people will wait for a sign from god on everything like God is their personal assistant ....

Mon Feb 10 2025
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Vanessa's avatar
Vanessa

Your standards are too high. You need to be flexible because no man will tick all your boxes. Maybe no man will have everything I'm looking for. However, I believe that when I meet the one God has for me, He will reveal it to me, and that feeling and conviction will outweigh any qualities he may lack. So far, it hasn't happened yet 🤷‍♀️

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Florent's avatar
Florent

@Vanessa what if the man God was planning for you was rejected because you didn't need all those boxes ticked?

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Just Me Hayley's avatar
Just Me Hayley

@Florent love your mind I can't help but get drawn into what you have to say and the way you articulate your trail of thoughts. I hunger for intellectual mind like yours

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Jonathan's avatar
Jonathan

Looking forward to seeing your Salt Success story when you guys meet...

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Jenny's avatar
Jenny

@Vanessa the standards one! Or ‘why don’t you date someone who hasn’t got your beliefs?’ I explain that we’re less likely to be compatible and that knowing God is important to me.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@Vanessa I think you can apply the same to men

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Nelly's avatar
Nelly

You are lovely tho. Don't worry the right person will come along 🙄

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Oritsetsola Susan Abraham's avatar
Oritsetsola Susan Abraham

Are you planning on getting married to Jesus? ( non believers have asked me this ) 😃

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham that’s kinda funny though 🤣

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham you already are married to Him though 😅😄🙈🕊️

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Oritsetsola Susan Abraham's avatar
Oritsetsola Susan Abraham

1: Marriage is not the be all and end all.. 2: Just keep serving in the house of God. Your person will show up. ( Many did this, never venturing out to meet other singles in other churches ) 3: That person you are dating, do they serve in church? Speak in tongues?

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Evelyn's avatar
Evelyn

@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham Yes Tsola … too many questions and not enough fervent prayer 🙏 possibly on your behalf by the questioners.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Oasis's avatar
Oasis

@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham it would be nice if singleness was celebrated more. Aren’t we supposed to encourage each other to have a closer walk with Jesus? Imagine if the disciples discussed marriage more than the Gospel. I suppose in a sense they did because they would discuss who would be the greatest in heaven. Jesus was quick to refocus their thinking though. He has his eyes on the prize of giving His loved ones salvation.

Sun Feb 09 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

• That the "right person" will basically just be delivered to me by God like a Stork with a baby. • Not to settle for anything less than a mental image of perfection. I've seen both these banded around and watched friends become very lonely whilst other friends who are willing to compromise find love and are happy. And I say this without irony, as I am 40 and single myself, but I also made the decision *not* to date during my 20s and only became a Christian 3 years ago.

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Yini's avatar
Yini

When are you getting married?

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Pranay's avatar
Pranay

Beauty is superficial, marry someone with a good heart 🙄😒

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

Having had a long term relationship with someone who is both superficial and vain - trust me... personality is top in the long run.

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Pranay's avatar
Pranay

@Chris From personal experience, Beauty is a huge reflection of their personality. Discipline, habits, consistency are some of the qualities and traits that manifest in the physical body and face. In the long run, personality is top and I’ve seen enough people with debilitating illnesses, disorders, addictions and terrible destructive habits. Looks are an EXTENSION of one’s personality. It’s not always accidental. It is intentional. They tell a story, if you know how to read.

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Anonymous's avatar
Anonymous

@Pranay - I respectfully disagree. Self care, exercise and hygiene make a difference, to some extent, but the vast majority of someone's physical beauty is entirely genetic and not something that just magically radiates from their personality. "Beauty" will tell you very little beyond they like to make themselves look good through self care and/or cosmetics. And chasing beauty itself can be an addiction, an obsession, an idol, a disorder and a destructive habit.

Fri Feb 07 2025
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Sylvia's avatar
Sylvia

@Chris Oh Lord I can relate, that is super painful. Luckily God gave me a child from my one and I believe leaving was the best choice I have done in my entire 47year.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Jez's avatar
Jez

@Chris @Pranay I think there is some truth in what you both say. Beauty is genetic to an extent but physical health certainly helps an increases beauty whilst also being an indicator of someone with discipline and self respect which are attractive traits. I think you have to find someone attractive an feel chemistry regardless.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Jenny's avatar
Jenny

@Sylvia I’m glad you’ve got a child from your relationship. Yeah, some relationships do need leaving.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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Pranay's avatar
Pranay

@Jez @Jez exactly mate! The change one’s lifestyle(no smoking, no drinking, no skimping on sleep, religiously eating healthy, exercising, never being over weight, avoiding stress, etc) makes to a person’s health, the way they look and feel is TRULY REMARKABLE! No cosmetics/serums will ever give you the results true inner health will. I still get approached by women who’re more than ten years younger than me thinking I’m their age. I’m living proof of that.

Sat Feb 08 2025
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