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Things Christian singles are sick of hearing
Give me all the unsolicited advice you've heard from family members, people at church, strangers...
Maybe âyouâll meet her when God says youâre ready.â It makes it sound like we have to have a certain level of spiritual maturity in order to marry. Like you have to have everything together. I donât want to be a mess when u meet her but I know for certain I wonât be perfect. It just sounds like married people are more spiritually mature than singles with the desire to marry.
Donât worry, she will come along when you are both ready. ( boy we must be slow learners đ¤Ł)
@Jose đđđ
You must be the most gifted person I have ever met .... For being single for sooooo long and still serving Jesus ....
Why aren't you married yet?
@James can you imagine đ
Wanna join single till rapture contract? đ¤Łđ
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@Christian Daniel I think itâs more about our priorities. Are we seeking human connection above the glorious and honourable connection we have with Christ? Remember that Christ died so we could have this connection and have eternal life. Thatâs more than any lover or spouse could give.
@Oasis i think you missed the point. Also, being married doesn't exclude any of the things you mentioned above
@Christian Daniel perhaps you missed my point as well.
@Christian Daniel the statement you shared is dismissive and is a shame itâs been used in a dismissive way. Jesus was focused on serving the Kingdom to come and we are partially already participating in that right now since Christ died for us to take back what Adam and Eve forfeited. As Jesus is our example in all things, perhaps there is a point of truth in that dismissing statement that is worth contemplating on.
âJesus is your husband nowâđ
@MJ Jesus has always been the Lover of Our Soul more than anyone else. It would be nice if this was celebrated more. We are to desire the ring and desire God even more.
@Oasis Very true and the same could be said for married people. But unfortunately it's often used as a way of dismissing people's very real, God given desire for marriage.
@Angela I agree. Which is a shame. Iâm sure many have good intentions when they say that but it is unfortunately quite dismissive. I just want to take this moment to reassure you, that you are enough, more than enough. You are made after the image of the Most High and He adores you dearly and He is going to give you the best. Whatever the best is, we can trust He will provide according to your needs in Him. Amen đđź
@MJ nobody says this. And the people that say they are "married to Jesus".... should probably get out more
Make a list!
Don't worry about it your yong you have plenty of time to think about marriage. Here this all through my twenties & thirties. I'm now 40
"Be careful waiting for God's will, the train is going to miss you and you will be single forever"
@Lily .... said no christian ever.
Recently divorced and well meaning married Christianâs say âJesus is your husband nowâ âŚ. thanks
@Allie Jesus has always been your Husband though. No one could love you as much as He does. It would be nice if this was celebrated more rather than being used as a cop out comfort line.
Yes absolutely! Iâd rather they put their arm around me and say âyouâre going to be ok, Iâm here for youâ. I already know Jesus loves me!
âKJV onlyâ I used to be part of the KJV only following and Iâm glad Iâve let go and let God open my heart and mind to other perspectives.
Hey @Oasis Just out of curiosity, what version did you read that used the word âsubjectingâ instead of âsubmittingâ?
@Blair I use BibleHub and compare many versions as well as look into the Interlinear Bible on BibleHub to analyse the original word. I hope you find peace Blaire. Sorry to hear this is still on your mind đď¸May you not focus on something of difference that you miss out on the beautiful things we may have in common that could give glory to God. đş
@Oasis ErmâŚthanks. Iâm at peace with it. Was just interested in the source of the discrepancy. I find the issue caused by the variable translations of the Bible fascinating and I want to learn the truth of it. I mentioned it before, but the ways in which different words are used can completely change the nature of God. Can show examples if you need.
@Oasis I highly recommend anyone go and watch the videos on the âTruth is Christâ YouTube channel. âThe Golden Sequenceâ video is a good start. The true word of God is awe inspiring!
âItâll happen when you least expect itâ
Why are you still single!đ
@Loiwe Grace i can answer that nowâşď¸. I said maybe lack of men who pursue me, not right time, maybe God has prepared me. I used everything to help međ
"The papal decree says that we should...*insert pre-historic dating advice*"
"Sarah was 90 when she gave birth. It's never too late."
@SaMa hahaha
@SaMa exactly! On October 13, 2021, Star Trekâs Captain Kirk, actor William Shatner, became the first 90-year-old to go into space. it really is never too late! haha đđ
Did he survive re-entry and make it back to the maternity ward in time?
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"Wir mĂźssen warten"
@Chris @Oritsetsola Susan Abraham me too! My friend had a prophetic that Iâd meet my man and weâd do ministry together. Her advice was just to keep on in ministry & the Christian world. I think the prophecy could be true but the application was wrong.
Don't worry <person we know> didn't get married till they were 58!
Some women will keep wasting god's plan because they expect everything from God and/or their husband instead of starting to build the family they want asap. It's not something being said but a lot of people make that mistake of laziness.
@Florent Hi my brother, very interesting your comment. It's a good perspective. But What do you mean with: "some women waste time expecting everything from God?"
@Rebeca I mean they not only expect God to send a potential husband but they will expect God to send the perfect husband, including perfect personality, activity, money, etc. Which is ridiculous because know better than us what we truly need, but they'll stick to unrealistic expectations and turn down the men God actually sent them.
Also some people will wait for a sign from god on everything like God is their personal assistant ....
Your standards are too high. You need to be flexible because no man will tick all your boxes. Maybe no man will have everything I'm looking for. However, I believe that when I meet the one God has for me, He will reveal it to me, and that feeling and conviction will outweigh any qualities he may lack. So far, it hasn't happened yet đ¤ˇââď¸
@Vanessa what if the man God was planning for you was rejected because you didn't need all those boxes ticked?
@Florent love your mind I can't help but get drawn into what you have to say and the way you articulate your trail of thoughts. I hunger for intellectual mind like yours
Looking forward to seeing your Salt Success story when you guys meet...
@Vanessa the standards one! Or âwhy donât you date someone who hasnât got your beliefs?â I explain that weâre less likely to be compatible and that knowing God is important to me.
@Vanessa I think you can apply the same to men
You are lovely tho. Don't worry the right person will come along đ
Are you planning on getting married to Jesus? ( non believers have asked me this ) đ
@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham thatâs kinda funny though đ¤Ł
@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham you already are married to Him though đ đđđď¸
1: Marriage is not the be all and end all.. 2: Just keep serving in the house of God. Your person will show up. ( Many did this, never venturing out to meet other singles in other churches ) 3: That person you are dating, do they serve in church? Speak in tongues?
@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham Yes Tsola ⌠too many questions and not enough fervent prayer đ possibly on your behalf by the questioners.
@Oritsetsola Susan Abraham it would be nice if singleness was celebrated more. Arenât we supposed to encourage each other to have a closer walk with Jesus? Imagine if the disciples discussed marriage more than the Gospel. I suppose in a sense they did because they would discuss who would be the greatest in heaven. Jesus was quick to refocus their thinking though. He has his eyes on the prize of giving His loved ones salvation.
⢠That the "right person" will basically just be delivered to me by God like a Stork with a baby. ⢠Not to settle for anything less than a mental image of perfection. I've seen both these banded around and watched friends become very lonely whilst other friends who are willing to compromise find love and are happy. And I say this without irony, as I am 40 and single myself, but I also made the decision *not* to date during my 20s and only became a Christian 3 years ago.
When are you getting married?
Beauty is superficial, marry someone with a good heart đđ
Having had a long term relationship with someone who is both superficial and vain - trust me... personality is top in the long run.
@Chris From personal experience, Beauty is a huge reflection of their personality. Discipline, habits, consistency are some of the qualities and traits that manifest in the physical body and face. In the long run, personality is top and Iâve seen enough people with debilitating illnesses, disorders, addictions and terrible destructive habits. Looks are an EXTENSION of oneâs personality. Itâs not always accidental. It is intentional. They tell a story, if you know how to read.
@Pranay - I respectfully disagree. Self care, exercise and hygiene make a difference, to some extent, but the vast majority of someone's physical beauty is entirely genetic and not something that just magically radiates from their personality. "Beauty" will tell you very little beyond they like to make themselves look good through self care and/or cosmetics. And chasing beauty itself can be an addiction, an obsession, an idol, a disorder and a destructive habit.
@Chris Oh Lord I can relate, that is super painful. Luckily God gave me a child from my one and I believe leaving was the best choice I have done in my entire 47year.
@Chris @Pranay I think there is some truth in what you both say. Beauty is genetic to an extent but physical health certainly helps an increases beauty whilst also being an indicator of someone with discipline and self respect which are attractive traits. I think you have to find someone attractive an feel chemistry regardless.
@Sylvia Iâm glad youâve got a child from your relationship. Yeah, some relationships do need leaving.
@Jez @Jez exactly mate! The change oneâs lifestyle(no smoking, no drinking, no skimping on sleep, religiously eating healthy, exercising, never being over weight, avoiding stress, etc) makes to a personâs health, the way they look and feel is TRULY REMARKABLE! No cosmetics/serums will ever give you the results true inner health will. I still get approached by women whoâre more than ten years younger than me thinking Iâm their age. Iâm living proof of that.