I have a question! 🤔 What makes some people on dating apps want to chat back and forth for many months but not take up any chance to meet? Doesn’t that just make you penpals? 🤔

Do you feel like dating apps have made you too picky? Is there too much choice? Or are we in such a small dating pool that apps are a necessity?

I was the first woman. Set my standards and was willing to walk away. He proposed and then 6 months before the wedding I realised .... it really wasn't the healthy for me. He didn't really want the life we discussed he just didn't want to be single. He went on to marry the girl he dated next and I'm still not married 8 years later. Did the thought sting? Yes. Do I mourn the loss of that forever? Yes. Am I happier knowing what I did was right for me? Yes. He wasn't right for me in many ways and I'm sure I wasn't right for him in many ways. I think we have been deceived into thinking we each get one great love and everything else pales in comparison.... The truth is as we grow and mature love is different, exciting and new, soft and comfortable, safe and home, it's different. Whether you're the ex or the next nothing can invalidate the relationship and love you had. Relatable?

I love finding out what hidden talents people have and the more unusual the better! My hidden talent is rollerblading/ice skating. I used to play roller hockey which I don't think many people know!

Is there just one person out there for you? Or are there multiple compatible partners for each of us? What do you think?

We're about to split the users potentially! What do you think? Should the guy pay on a date? Should you split the bill? Or should it be a treat from whoever organised the date? And how on earth do you communicate this?!

This is the worst part of dating, right?! How do you let someone down clearly but gently especially during the talking / early dating stage when technically no-one should be super invested (but often they are!) What are your tips?