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Kati
Sat Oct 19 2024

Calling it out.

I’m calling something out here.. in a bid to shine a light on a trap that I’m wary of. Looking for relationships for self-service and using God to disguise that, even to ourselves. The theme of “submission” is pervasive amongst male posts and comments.. to point of reading as foul-play and misogynistic. I have grown up watching a father laying down his life for his wife, and watching a mother submitting to her husband in response to this love. This reflects their sincere love for Jesus. To whom it may encourage.. I implore you to concentrate on your own need to die to your natural ways… and not to impose your will for submission and control on women, men. And women, to not be adverse to responding when you are being loved in that way. There is an order. I have never read a profile that says something along the lines of.. “I want to learn to lay down my life”. And read too many stating a submissive woman is first required. Sending this out with a troubled but gentle heart.

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